Wednesday, June 29, 2011

REPOST: You rockin’ a fro for the 4th?



July 4th is quickly approaching, and many naturalistas will be wearing big beautiful afros (or fierce TWAs). You can find last year's post on it here:  You rockin’ a fro for the 4th?.

I couldn't make it work last year; my hair was not cooperating! But that won't stop me from trying it again this year. So who is with me? We want to see how you rock it! Be sure to share your pix with us by sending them to submissions@kinxnquirx.com




 



 

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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Morning Quickie: I Love...

I have a habit. It's something that I sometimes do without thinking, and it happens pretty often. Too much, some would say. But it's a bit addictive and I don't think I'm gonna stop. When I see a lady with something I like (hair, clothes, jewelry, makeup, whatever--but especially natural hair) I have to stop and compliment them. Just about every day I'm telling someone "Ooh I love your..." Most of the time I don't even know these ladies but feel compelled to let them know that I saw something good.

Why? Well I don't really know... I guess it's because I know the little pick-me-up that comes along with an unexpected comment. It's always nice to know that someone not only notices something positive, but isn't afraid to let you know. There is so much negativity out there, especially about black women. Why not do your little part to combat that? If you see someone looking good, doing something well, whatever, let them know! You may give them the smile they needed to get through the day.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Just a Reminder

    It's been a busy couple of weeks, and this one is no exception! Post are coming this week though, so no worries.
  • I just wanted to remind you that there are like a million and one ways to keep in touch with me. See that little "Follow Me" tab to the right of your screen? Click it! Hit me up on Twitter (@ me sometime!), Facebook (the KnQ page needs y'all... c'mon!), LinkedIn, and follow via RSS subscription of get posts right in your inbox. If you're a fellow bibliophile you'll definitely want to check out Goodreads. Click the logo to add me as a friend so I can be nosy and see what you're reading get some reading suggestions. And of course you can always email me (submissions@kinxnquirx.com). I ain't hard to find, and I promise I really am friendly (usually).

  • While you're connecting and all that good stuff, remember to send submissions to be featured! I want, no NEED, submissions featuring natural hair, fashion, makeup, fiction, topic suggestions... You name it! As I said in the welcome post, I want this site to be a truly interactive place where you don't feel like you're just a reader, but a part of a little community. Don't make me have to draft you! LOL

  • If you have not already, sign up for Intense Debate. It's a great commenting system that sort of tracks your comments across various sites. And the little votes show you how many folks agree (or disagree) with you & show others how much you rock. Win-win!

  • Okay, that's it. Work has officially fried my brain, so I need to rest. But I look forward to talking to WITH you soon!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Desperate Times...

What would you do if you were broke and in need of medical attention? James Richard Verone decided to rob a bank... for $1.00.


Earlier this month, Verone (pictured), a 59-year-old convenience store clerk, walked into a Gastonia, N.C., bank and handed the cashier a note demanding $1 and medical attention. Then he waited calmly for police to show up.

He's now in jail and has an appointment with a doctor this week.

Verone's problems started when he lost the job he'd held for 17 years as a Coca Cola deliveryman, amid the economic downturn. He found new work driving a truck, but it didn't last. Eventually, he took a part-time position at the convenience store.

But Verone's body wasn't up to it. The bending and lifting made his back ache. He had problems with his left foot, making him limp. He also suffered from carpal tunnel syndrome and arthritis.

Then he noticed a protrusion on his chest. "The pain was beyond the tolerance that I could accept," Verone told the Gaston Gazette. "I kind of hit a brick wall with everything."

Verone knew he needed help--and he didn't want to be a burden on his sister and brothers. He applied for food stamps, but they weren't enough either.

...

Because he only asked for $1, Verone was charged with larceny, not bank robbery. But he said that if his punishment isn't severe enough, he plans to tell the judge that he'll do it again. His $100,000 bond has been reduced to $2,000, but he says he doesn't plan to pay it.

In jail, Verone said he skips dinner to avoid too much contact with the other inmates. He's already seen some nurses and is scheduled to see a doctor on Friday. He said he's hoping to receive back and foot surgery, and get the protrusion on his chest treated. Then he plans to spend a few years in jail, before getting out in time to collect Social Security and move to the beach.

Verone also presented the view that if the United States had a health-care system which offered people more government support, he wouldn't have had to make the choice he did.

"If you don't have your health you don't have anything," Verone said.

As it is, Verone said he thinks he chose the best of a bunch of bad options. "I picked jail." (source)

 

You know, I'm not even mad at him. Desperate times call for desperate measures. We should, however, be mad at the lawmakers who believe national healthcare is a frivolous waste of tax dollars.  (By the way, these lawmakers have great government-funded healthcare. Even stuff us normal folks can't get covered under insurance--like liposuction--is all taken care of.) We should be mad at the corrupt businesses and banking institutions that are majorly responsible for the state of our economy. Be mad at your fellow citizens who don't vote, neglecting their responsibility to elect leaders with our best interests in mind. But this guy? In my mind he deserves, at the very least, the medical treatment he needs.

Current Read: A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink

Over the past couple of years (since I started grad school) I haven't read much simply for leisure. In fact, I have only read one novel since the beginning of 2009, and that was just a few months ago. Instead, I've been engrossed in books about business and self-improvement. This book is no different.

A Whole New Mind: Why Right-Brainers Will Rule the Future by Daniel Pink takes a look at the changes occurring in today's society and the need to shift from a primarily left-brain way of thinking to a dual-thinking. The synopsis from Goodreads.com:
Lawyers. Accountants. Software engineers. That's what Mom and Dad encouraged us to become. They were wrong. Gone is the age of "left-brain" dominance. The future belongs to a different kind of person with a different kind of mind: designers, inventors, teachers, storytellers-creative and empathic "right-brain" thinkers whose abilities mark the fault line between who gets ahead and who doesn't. Drawing on research from around the advanced world, Daniel Pink outlines the six fundamentally human abilities that are essential for professional success and personal fulfillment-and reveals how to master them. From a laughter club in Bombay, to an inner-city high school devoted to design, to a lesson on how to detect an insincere smile, A Whole New Mind takes listeners to a daring new place, and offers a provocative and urgent new way of thinking about a future that has already arrived.

 

 

So far I am about a third of the way through this book. Pink's three forces driving us towards the right-brain revolution, "Abundance, Asia, and Automation, are interesting ideas. The concept of abundance was sort of an eye-opener for me; I never considered that having so much would play a role in our desire for meaning. However, thinking about it now, it does follow the pattern of Maslow's hierarchy of needs... While I'm not completely sold on the "Asia" aspect of it (Pink makes it seem as if we are in economic warfare with Asia, specifically India, and disregards globalization completely), the automation part was right on point to me. With machines and computers being able to do many things that humans can do (and more efficiently) we have to look at what uniquely human features we can bring to the table.

Pink also has "six senses" which he feels are important in developing the right-brain thinking: design, story, symphony, empathy, play and meaning. I've just gotten to this potion of the book, so I'll be covering those and my overall thoughts on the book once I do a full review.

What business books have you found helpful? Have you read this book or any others by Daniel Pink? If so, what were your thoughts? And if you're not into business, what type of books do you read most often?

Quote of the Day


“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in, forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day, you shall begin it well and serenely...”



-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Monday, June 20, 2011

Tweet Week (Cont): To Follow or Not To Follow? That is the Question!

Yeah sooo, Tweet Week was last week huh? Well since I didn't get around to posting every day due to the move, I'm playing catch up this week. Who gone check me boo?! (Yes, I'm still using that.) 

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Although my Twitter gets somewhat personal at times, I leave it unlocked. (For the non-tweeters, a locked profile means you have to approve someone before they can follow you.) Mainly this is so that I can join in various discussions and have my tweets seen by others who are discussing the same even if they are not following. This doesn't really create any problems and I don't particularly mind anyone following me. However, there are three groups that make me a little uneasy when it comes to my Twitter.

Family members, coworkers, and church folks.

Why these three in particular? Well, Twitter is my little space to rant, rave and let my hair down. My Facebook page is pretty reserved by comparison, and even there I don't let coworkers add me as a friend. Twitter was my spot where I can say what I need to say and let the "real" Tori shine through, so to speak. Honestly, I don't know if many folks that "know" me could handle the real me. It's one thing to be exposed to one side of a person, but to see all of the many facets of a person (or at least the ones they choose to reveal) is a whole 'nother monster.

The last thing I need is someone trying to shame/censor my random thoughts. It's just not going to happen! There a select few friends from church and family members that I'm happy to follow and have following me. A couple of others, however, get the side-eye from me...

What about you? Are there certain people you'd rather not follow you? And do you have your page locked for that specific reason?
Since my page isn't locked, you should go ahead and follow me!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Tweet Week: The Worse Tweeps You'll Meet

I love Twitter. It's a huge meeting place for new people and ideas. Whether you're looking for information, a laugh, or the next big thing, you can probably find it there in 140 characters or less. That being said, you may also find folks that you really wish you hadn't. These are the groups that grind my gears:

TeamFollowBack Every time I get a follow from someone with that #teamfollowback crap I get annoyed. Why? Because 98% of the time their timeline is full of "@_____ follow me! #teamfollowback" Why should I follow anyone who has absolutely nothing of value to share?

The "no you didn't unfollow me!" tweeters True story: I started following a soror because she was often RT'd onto my timeline & the tweets would be funny or thought-provoking. After I followed I realized that those tweets were few and far between. After finally getting tired of reading the same old Greek jokes stereotypes she got unfollowed along with several others that I didn't really interact with. Although we hadn't tweeted each other since the initial "thanks for the follow," it wasn't two minutes before I got "called out." Then her friends jumped in on it. I sat at my desk like "Really? It's that serious huh?" I've also seen people cussed out and threatened because they no longer wanted to hear about what someone had for breakfast. Please don't be that person! If someone unfollows you, they just weren't feeling what you had to say. No biggie. No one is obligated to anyone else on Twitter.

The pushy promoter These are the ones that have never @'d you a day in their lives, but out of nowhere they hit you with the "hey @kinxnquirx, check out/vote for/download my new hit! RT! my.song/garbage" like y'all have been pals forever. And it's not just the song promoters; club/party promoters, salespeople, pyramid scheme pushers, etc. I was tempted to lump these folks in as general spam, but I won't and here's why: often times (from what I've seen) these folks get belligerent when you choose not to RT or ask why they hit you up out of the blue asking for favors without so much as a hello. Who are you boo?!

The mute mystery followers Usually I can tell why someone follows me. Something in their bio lets me know that we have mutual interests, or I see that we interact with the same people. I love that! But sometimes there are randoms that I just don't understand. We don't run in the same e-circles, nothing in their timeline indicates that they are into the things I tweet about, and they don't respond to the "Thanks for the follow!" tweet or DM. I don't trust these people. I want to ask "Who sent you to spy on me?!" but I figure that would be a little melodramatic. Instead I just ignore (and occasionally block) them .

The He-Man Woman Haters & The "Men Ain't Sh*t" Coalition These people get a quick block from me. I don't participate in man bashing, so why would I want to see it on my timeline? Unfortunately I used to see it quite often. I'd follow someone (usually a guy... sorry but it's true!) and soon find that they had more animosity built up towards the opposite sex than a lil bit! It's disturbing, especially when I think about the fact that many of these folks have kids. How can you constantly bash all women but try to tell your daughter that she's a princess? How do you say "F*ck these niggas" and expect your son to grow up to love and respect you? I can't see it working. But I've learned that instead of arguing with these people about their views and opinions, it is better for my peace of mind to unfollow. Why even let that kind of negativity in?

Monday, June 13, 2011

Tweet Week: Why (this) BW is on Twitter

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Ladies and gentlemen of the African-American community, give yourselves a hand! Apparently everything we do is of interest to the "mainstream." Lately there has been an proliferation of articles about why so many Black people are on Twitter, how we use Twitter, and articles lambasting the articles about Black people on Twitter. I guess it doesn't occur to many of those who are fascinated by our use of social media that our interest and intent are as varied as any other people's. And to further clear things up--or muddy the waters, depending on how you're looking at it--we sometimes have multiple uses for it! *hands on head* It's so confusing! I knooow!

So since I can't give anyone a reason why other people are on tha twittah, here are my reasons/uses for it:

  • To promote myself and my blog From my site stats (yes I check those!) I see that a lot of hits come from folks clicking the links in my tweets. Twitter is a great, free way to promote any and everything.

  • To connect with other like-minded (and not-so-like-minded) people Initially I didn't think that Twitter would be good for this. After all, that's what Facebook was for, right? Umm, not so much. While FB is good for reconnecting with old friends, it's a little more than I want to share with complete strangers. But thanks to a few tweets and well-placed hashtags, I've e-met other natural hair aficionados, artists, writers/bloggers, frat & sorors, Jacksonians that can tell me what's going on around here and business people.

  • To keep up with what's going on I should probably be ashamed to admit it, but I get a lot of news now in 140 characters or less. Seriously, when the president announced that we'd killed Osama bin Laden, I'd already read it an hour earlier via Twitter. Of course, it's usually not that serious; more along the lines of who won the game, big events (most recently AGP), conference highlights, etc.

  • To clear my mind of random thoughts Occasionally I put Twitter to use as a sort of stream of consciousness. If something happens to pop into my head (that I don't deem too unsavory to share) it usually ends up in a tweet. Sometimes it sparks debate, other times I'm just talking to myself. Doesn't matter though because those tweets are just to make room for more important thoughts in my head.

  • To get a good laugh Y'all don't know how much time is spent guffawing over twitpics, jokes, e-thugging and stupidity (shout out to Dumbest Tweets Ever for all the shenanigans they post). When I need a pick me up, Twitter is the place for a quick (and usually cheap) laugh.


Now that I've explained my reasons for being on Twitter pretty much all day, every day, tell me why you're there! BTW, have we connect on Twitter? Well why the heck not?! Follow me!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

On Inspiration

I find that inspiration comes at the most inopportune time. In the middle of the sermon at church. While showering. When I'm supposed to be taking notes during staff meetings. During that limbo between being awake and being asleep. It's crazy... but not really. After all, that's usually when my mind isn't racing with 1001 things I should be doing, wish I was doing, wish I wasn't doing, refuse to do, etc. Instead I'm just kinda there, and the thoughts start flowing freely.

The other time when inspiration comes on strong is when I'm down. Let my relationship be on the rocks, or my job working my nerves. Suddenly my muse goes into overdrive. I assume it's because, in the back of my mind, I know that creating makes me feel better. Even when all I'm creating is an outlet for the messed up emotions that I'm experiencing.

Since my inspiration works on its own terms, I've learned to keep a notepad (or my phone) with me at all times, and to never be so busy that I can't stop to scribble my thoughts. My memory isn't the greatest, and those little burst of creativity are the most fleeting thoughts of all. I have to grab them when I can, and hopefully, when I get to sit down and make something of them I can make something that everyone will enjoy.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Shallow or Smart?

Straight to the point today: Can a blue-collar guy and a white-collar woman have a successful relationship?

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So many women want men with degrees, making six figures, pushing something nice and living somewhere lavish. Can't front, I want that too. The future I always saw was with an attorney, professor or business owner, with frequent dinner parties, networking/charity events and trips abroad. I'm (sorta kinda) on my way to that on my own, so why not want someone who can only advance that? I could just see a well-bred, well-read man from a well-to-do family and with a couple of degrees by my side.

Then I met the current SO and things shifted. He was a "regular joe," without degrees or cultured tastes. He was a (wonderful) bartender, and although having a man who's great with a shaker is ideal, it would be even better if that was just a hobby. It made me think about this article on Clutch, where the writer is apprehensive to share where her crush worked. Yet here we are a year and a half later and I'm trying to figure out can this really work. Do I want to make this work? Would it work better or easier with someone who is "on my level"?

No, I didn't say that I think he's not on my level. That came from a conversation with my parents about him. They don't think he is. Disregard the fact that my dad has never been on my mom's "level" even according to his own definition, but somehow they've made it work. Yet, I do fear reliving some of the same things I've seen growing up: the exasperation of trying to explain different things or why certain things are important. Being limited to what we can do because one person isn't pulling in enough money for extras. Becoming homebodies because someone doesn't have any interests outside of what's on television. I don't want that life!

Sometimes that is the future I see for us and I'm scared out of my mind. Then other times, when we talk about what he wants to do to improve his life, I think we can have some of that dream I've always wanted. I just don't know if letting this go in hopes of something better (especially when nothing better has presented itself) would be shallow or smart on my part.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Quote(s) of the Day

It's only Wednesday, but this has been one of the roughest, most trying weeks I can ever recall. My stress level is at an all-time high (matched only by my last semester in grad school when I wasn't sure I'd pass my final class) and I've cried more times than I care to recall.

It ain't looking good for the kid.

So since there's no one here to pat me on the back and "woo woo woo" me, I have to encourage myself. Or let the words of others do it for me:
Hold your head high, stick your chest out. You can make it. It gets dark sometimes, but morning comes. Keep hope alive. Don't you surrender! Suffering breeds character, character breeds faith. In the end faith will not disappoint.
- Jesse Jackson

You are on the eve of a complete victory. You can't go wrong. The world is behind you.
- Josephine Baker

Thanks Jesse. Thanks Josephine. Y'all don't know how much I needed that.

Hot Links - 6.8.11

"White House to Urban Entrepreneurs: We Hear You--For The Most Part" via Huffington Post

Vogue Italia to feature plus-size models for their June issue. Obviously they used models so it was fashion's definition of plus-size. However there are some ladies in the spread with serious curves! I love it! I also love the fact that they are shown in the same sensual light that the smaller models would. Sometimes when publications venture into plus-size territory they tend to go with a more matronly feel. This spread proves (again) that big girls can have sex appeal!

Apps that make your iPad work like a laptop. This article somewhat ties into my post about apps for professionals on the go, so it was only right to include it.

Red. Velvet. Crepes. Laaaaawd I need these in my life! Showed this to momma and she agreed that we'll have to make these for a "special occasion." I believe the weekend is special enough, no?

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

My Hair Won't Stay Straight!

The other day I was talking to a sales lady at AT&T and the subject turned to natural hair. She mentioned flat ironing her hair, and I kinda guffawed because we've had 100+ temperatures this past week and humidity through the roof. I had to ask how long her blowouts last, and guess what she said? She said it lasts til she washes it!! A week, two weeks... It stays straight. She doesn't even have to retouch it. Y'all know I was jealous right? Seriously, my hair starts to frizz up the day after I straighten it. Even when I did my blowout in December (when the humidity is pretty much non-existent) it started poofing up the next day. I did notice that her hair appeared courser than mine, and maybe that had something to do with it. We didn't have time to talk products though.


Now my mission is to find out whether I need to use different products or whether my hair type is just rebellious. Actually, scratch that last part; I know my hair is rebellious. The question is whether or not it can be tamed!


Do you/have you had problems with your hair reverting back soon after a blowout? If you no longer do, what is your secret? Help a sista out!

Morning Quickie: My weight doesn't impair my confidence

Just heard on a Jenny Craig commercial: "As your weight decreases, your confidence increases... Thank you [Jenny] for making me pretty again."

*eyeroll* Lady sit yo slow superficial self down!

Let me say this: I understand an commend folks who want to lose weight, whether it be for health or just because they want a slimmer figure. Shoot, I'm trying to drop a few pounds myself!

But this whole fat girl shaming is ridiculous. News flash: Even with some extra pounds you CAN be confident and you CAN be beautiful. And, being small doesn't automatically make you either. My biggest issue is that there's this implied assertion that weight and appearance should dictate how you feel about yourself. If your self-confidence is tied to the numbers on the scale, THAT IS A PROBLEM! You should know that your worth is base on your character, your intellect, who you are as a person. Not your looks. I'm not foolish enough to believe that it doesn't have any bearing on how you feel, but come on...

Y'all tell me: Am I being overly sensitive about this? Do you get the same message from certain commercials, magazines, shows, etc.?

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Write the Vision


And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain on tables, that he may run that reads it. - Habakkuk 2:2 (AKJV)




When I heard of vision boards, initially I was skeptical as all get out. My first semester of grad school I took Entrepreneurship as an elective. My professor, Dr. Calhoun, had us to create one before we even started discussing business plans. Not taking it very seriously, I just put something together, using "visions" of things I thought would be good to say. It was a little strange to me; he almost made it seem like there was some kind of magic in the board. O_o But the more I think and read about positive energy and how your thoughts shape your reality, the clearer the importance of the vision board becomes. Because I haven't done a vision board since the one I threw together over two years ago, I decided to take to the web and create one. I feel like it's pretty self-explanatory so I won't go into detail about it; just wanted to share it.


If you want to make your own online vision board, there are plenty of sites where you can do so. I happened to make mine on Oprah.com.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

One Year Natural

DAAAAAANG, really? Has it been a whole year since I chopped off my permed ends? Hard to believe, but yup, it's my one year nappiversary! Honestly, I am very proud of myself for sticking with it (I've got commitment issues!) and more importantly learning my hair. One of my major concerns going into this was maintaining the health of my hair, not just the look. Fortunately I've not experienced any breakage or major shedding, and from looking at the pix I know it's growing!

 

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This year has definitely been a learning experience. I've read books, blogs and magazines, but in the end the only way to truly learn about natural hair is to experience it. All of the info in the world couldn't tell me what my hair wanted and needed. Once I got over the fear of not knowing what I was doing (being a complete novice to hair care and all) I found out that it really wasn't that hard.

 

 

I think that a lot of women have a fear of going natural or think they can't because they've been lead to believe it's too hard. While it is time-consuming and takes a bit of trial & error--and patience, of course--it isn't particularly difficult.

There were a couple of things that I focused on: health (preventing as much breakage & shedding as possible) and softness. Tried a few different products and paid attention to how my hair responded. Learned what styles I was able to do and what I needed to leave to others. I found my go-to styles: chunky twist-outs and fluffy twist-outs (like the one I rocked today), puffs and the fro with little accessories to give it flair. Still working on those protective styles; haven't quite got those down yet. :-/

Long story short: This is an ongoing lesson, but it's worthwhile. Don't be afraid to experiment and ask questions!

 

*no length check this post but it'll be coming soon!*

 

 

Naomi Campbell Plays the Race Card; She Needs More People

In case you haven't heard, model and world-class Blackberry chunker Naomi Campbell is trying to get black people to boycott Cadbury over an ad she calls "hurtful and insulting." The ad in question?


Cadbury is facing the prospect of a black consumer boycott after it compared Naomi Campbell to a chocolate bar in a new advertising campaign.

The supermodel – hardly known for taking things in her stride – is incensed that Cadbury used her name in the strap line to promote its new chocolate bar called Bliss, accusing the company of racism. The ad says: "Move over Naomi – there is a new diva in town."

Yesterday Campbell revealed she is considering "every option available" after Cadbury, owned by the US giant Kraft, refused to pull the ad campaign, which ran in newspapers last week: "I am shocked. It's upsetting to be described as chocolate, not just for me, but for all black women and black people. I do not find any humour in this. It is insulting and hurtful."

Disgust at the ad prompted members of the public to complain to the campaign group Operation Black Vote (OBV), which has called for Cadbury to apologise. OBV's Simon Woolley said that without an apology, the "only recourse black people have is not to buy its chocolate". He has written to the American civil rights activists Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson to ask them to mobilise the country's Afro-American population. "I want them to know what their parent company is doing in Europe. I've asked them to support us."

Mr Woolley said that, for black people, being likened to chocolate was as bad as being called a golliwog. "Racism in the playground starts with black children being called 'chocolate bar'. At best, this is insensitive, and at worst it demonstrates Cadbury's utter disregard for causing offence. Its lack of apology just adds insult to injury. The Eurocentric joke is not funny to black people. (source)

Yes, ladies and gents, Naomi is supposedly pissed because she was compared to a chocolate bar.

I say supposedly because we as black people are no strangers to comparing our various shades to delicious treats. Caramel, cafe au lait, toffee, mocha, chocolate... Shoot, at one point in my life I would only refer to myself as cioccolata amara, which is Italian for "dark chocolate." (Don't judge me.) So for her to say that this is offensive... Yeah, not so much. I enjoy being called chocolate (except when it was the creepy custodian who used to call me "chocolate cake." *shudders*) Usually it's said by a significant other in admiration of my sweet creamy goodness smooth, melanin-rich skin, not defamation of it. So that's out.

The only reason I can fathom that she'd actually be upset is the use of her name (because really, what other Naomi came to mind?) along with the diamonds. I don't know if the diamonds were just in the picture for the imagery of luxury that a "diva" would be accustomed to, or if it was a tongue-in-cheek reference to the blood diamonds that Naomi received. And hey, she's entitled to be a little miffed at that, but to drag others into it? To claim racism and ask Sharpton & Jackson to lead some type of protest for you? Child, please!

Another case of frivolously playing the black card. As a commenter on OHN stated, "If race cards were a game of Spades, we'd be down to holding some sorry azz hearts. STOP THROWING OUT ALL THE GOOD CARDS!"

 

What do you think about the ad? Does Naomi Campbell have a right to claim the ad is racist? Will you be boycotting Cadbury?