I have a habit. It's something that I sometimes do without thinking, and it happens pretty often. Too much, some would say. But it's a bit addictive and I don't think I'm gonna stop. When I see a lady with something I like (hair, clothes, jewelry, makeup, whatever--but especially natural hair) I have to stop and compliment them. Just about every day I'm telling someone "Ooh I love your..." Most of the time I don't even know these ladies but feel compelled to let them know that I saw something good.
Why? Well I don't really know... I guess it's because I know the little pick-me-up that comes along with an unexpected comment. It's always nice to know that someone not only notices something positive, but isn't afraid to let you know. There is so much negativity out there, especially about black women. Why not do your little part to combat that? If you see someone looking good, doing something well, whatever, let them know! You may give them the smile they needed to get through the day.
Ay! I have to learn from you... sometimes I am too shy to tell people that I like what they are wearing!
ReplyDeleteIt\'s not an easy thing to do, not at first. I actually started doing it as a means to warm people up before I attempted to do business with them, but it gradually grew into something more. It may help if you start with folks who aren\'t complete strangers, like coworkers or a neighbor.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading!